learning to love the dildo

Okay.  Now.  Normally, i’m not a fan of the dildo.  And i will admit that when i got this toy i’m like “ahh a dildo..oh joy of joys…” and it’s like *put it in the back of the to-review list.  Now.  Obviously i didn’t as i have other toys on my list of reviews to do and this one made it forward.  Partially ‘cuz it *is* a dildo and thus there’s not as many functions and variables and such to test out so the testing is done sooner.  However..i’m addicted to this one.  i had my first g-spot orgasm!!  😀 😀

This toy is actually quite pretty.  The one they sent me was the middle one on the picture, i believe the technical name is “purple haze.”  It’s iridescent 🙂  So it shines and you can see hues of blue and purple and even a dash of pink in the right lights.  Okay..so the nitty gritty.

This toy is technically a strap on, and i do not have a harness.  SO, this review will be how this toy works sans the harness.  i like having the base to hold onto, so that’s a major plus!

It’s 7″ long with 6 1/2″ being insertible.  The diameter is only 1 1/8″  Normally this is very disappointing.  However!!!  If you take a gander at the pics i’ve thrown in, it’s got ribs.  Nubs?  Valleys?  Texture?  LOL However you would like to call how this toy is made…ooohhh BABY! (i’ll get into that in just a sec 😉

The Charmer (Note:  When you look at the Babeland website, they actually call this toy the Spine Tingler) Is quite light, and with a length of 7″ it’s a bit floppy, however with a little water-based lube once you get it inserted that’s not a problem.  It did take me 2 hands to insert it because it flops around so easily.   Then again if you’ve read previous reviews you’ve heard me talk of my anatomy (very thick outer lips, pretty much no inner lips) so this wasn’t surprising to me.

The Charmer is phthalates free, it’s bleachable, boilable, dishwasher safe and non porous.   The Charmer is silicone.  Being boilable that would mean this toy is waterproof!  So in the tub we go with it!  It’s latex free and hypo-allergenic so this is an incredibly body friendly toy.  Also, it’s extremely easy to clean being boilable, dishwasher safe and bleachable (though i’d be very careful using bleach!!  i suggest no more than a 10% mixture…) you would be able to use this toy anally ( i have not tried is such).  As always, safety first; i suggest using a condom. Also; because this toy is made of silicone, use a water-based lube to avoid reactions with the product material. And also, if you use condoms make sure they are silicone free (ya never know!)

Now the fun stuff 😀  This toy is PERFECT for my g-spot!  It was with this toy that i had my first g-spot orgasm.  It seemed that no matter what i did, those little ribs hit my g-spot just perfectly.  It did absolutely nothing for me otherwise however.  The Charmer is long enough to bump your cervix if you like that, however being floppy, for me, it doesn’t seem to hit it hard enough.  Besides, with it stroking my g-spot so well i honestly didnt’ care much about my cervix being stimulated LOL  i also did try this on my clit, and first off the end is too thick, and secondly when you press down it bends so you get so little pressure.  Also sans any vibes, it just lack..well, pretty much anything for clitoral stimulation.

For me this toy was awesome both laying and sitting.  i highly suggest this toy.  If i did a x stars out of x type of review (which i’m working on starting! :D) this one would have full rating!  i know i’ve yet to do an actual “negative” review and have talked highly of all the products i’ve reviewd so far (not that many really) but this one is my favorite by far.  Hell, i want this one in the other colors!!!

THANK YOU BABELAND AND TANTUS!!